Making friends isn't always easy. Especially once we're adults. We still have all those same fears of rejection and they can keep us from reaching out. I have found that there are two really good ways to make friends, though. You should try them out.
- Re-define "friend" - I used to think my friends were only the girlfriends I hung out with. In fact, friends are anyone you enjoy sharing time or communicating with. My mom, husband, daughter, brothers and sisters-in-law are all friends. The people I go to church with are friends. The friendly people at the library are friends. Former students who continue to share their lives with me via Facebook are friends. Change your definition and suddenly you'll have more friends than you realized.
- Recognize your potential friends - I see the same people at the park when I go regularly. We are all kindred spirits, pounding the pavement for personal reasons. I've come to know some of them and though we only see each other at the park, they are my running friends. Look around at the people you run into all the time and maybe that's your friends.